Here’s the myth. Girls like sporty guys. Girls go crazy for the cute, handsome ones. Girls would choose the bad guys over the nice guys, anytime. Or at least, those are what Hollywood has told us.
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If you read my blog post earlier this week, you’ll notice that I mention something about being antisocial. And I was antisocial. Still am. Well, maybe not for the past three days.
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Have you ever wondered what a girl is actually saying? Have you ever wondered why girls are so complicated? Well, sometimes, because we like dropping hints.
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CAN you go the distance? Marcella Purnama gets personal about long distance relationships and their chances of success.
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I used to be a non-believer of long distance relationships. I felt they were too tough and no one could ever withstand the hardship of not being able to be with the one you love physically.
Throughout high school I said to myself, “I don’t want to be in a long distance relationship. Not now, not ever.”
I congratulated those who were in one because I could imagine how hard it would be.
Then when graduation came and all of my high school friends scattered across the universe, I saw those long distance couples crumble. One by one, they broke up – until no one was left.
Moving onto my university life, I made new friends. I listened to those who were still trying to make their long distance relationships work, encouraged others. Saw the pre-wedding videos of those who made it through.
Then, I met someone.
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If anyone ever tells you that the courting period is the best thing in a relationship, I would call him a big, fat liar. Why? For me, it is the second worst thing after breaking-up.
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If someone asks me, what’s the kind of guy you’d like to date, I’ll be rolling my eyes and say, “Well, how many types of guys are there?”
Here are my top 13 types of guys. Because I’m a fan of movies, I’ll make reference to a movie character for each of the types.
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WHEN you fall for someone who’s already taken, should you let your head or your heart rule? Meld columnist Marcella Purnama asks.
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There are no exactly two alike women in this world. However, doing categorisation is sometimes useful (or fun) to do.
When you befriend someone, do you unconsciously categorise him or her as belonging to a group? Sometimes, I do.
So I begin to ask myself: what about the girls that guys date? Every girl is different, but is there any typical ‘girlfriend’ group that they belong to?
Let’s find out.
Here are my 13 types of girls that guys date, and because I’m a fan of movies, for each of the type I’ll make reference to a movie character.
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Contagious superhero fever is currently possessing the whole world. Girls, who will you choose as your date?
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IT’S funny just how heartless we can be when our hearts are broken. Marcella Purnama reflects on the pain of being a rebound and feeling like a distraction until someone better comes along.
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